Monthly Archives: February 2025

What Do You Mean by “Love”?

Dear Folks,

This is hard. If Christianity is easy for you, you’re doing it wrong. We are called to help others, and we do not ask if they are worthy of help, but rather we ask what is the most helpful.

We must never forget that having good intentions does not guarantee good actions. We may intend to do good but ultimately do harm instead. Deciding to love our neighbors, including the people we most dislike, is just the first step.

We need union with God to transform us into people who can overcome our sinfulness to love God and others. We know that in Christianity love is not a feeling, but a decision to seek the good of the other. This means understanding what is truly good. We are not the best measure of what is good for us. An alcoholic may believe that the most loving thing for someone to do is give him an endless supply of liquor, but that would not serve his flourishing. His perception is distorted by his addiction. We, because of our sinfulness, have a distorted notion of good, and so we need God’s teaching to help us understand true human flourishing. This connects everything. The Christian understanding of the human person, marriage, sexuality, family, the meaning of work, the meaning of human dignity and human rights, and other issues all connect to the command to love one another. That is why love requires we continue to learn more about our faith.

A number of issues can make loving one another very difficult and controversial. Forgiveness is not an optional part of Christianity, but in the words of C. S. Lewis, “Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until he has something to forgive.” Forgiveness is a form of healing, and that takes time.

We must have boundaries, or we will not be able to help for long. Many learn this the hard way. That will often mean refusing to enable bad behavior, even though that can get us accused of being hateful. Loving enough to tell the truth can have the same response. If people are enjoying regular sin, it is not loving to say that sin is not sin.

Self (and other) defense, just war, and law enforcement sometimes require force and even violence. We surround these issues with strict requirements, but there continues to be challenges.

We have the challenge of stewarding limited resources. If I think of a billion people in need, and I give each one of them a billionth of my resources (if it were even possible), that would not be terribly helpful. How do we best respond?

Liturgy needs to be done in a way that best presents the mysteries at work, and not necessarily the way people prefer or are used to.

We need as much of God’s help as we can get to respond to this call.

Blessings,

Fr. Jim

Temptations of the Desert and the Garden

Dear Folks,
Today Jesus hits us with the beatitudes in the Gospel of Luke.
The Bible portrays God’s people being tested in the garden of Eden, and then in the desert after escaping slavery in Egypt (of course, we failed both times). Jesus was tested in the desert for forty days, then again in the garden of Gethsemane (and, of course, He succeeded). The temptation of the garden and the temptation of the desert each have their dangers.
When we are deprived, hungry, exhausted, and worn down, it is hard to resist temptation, thinking giving in will bring us the relief we desperately crave. In the garden, when we have eaten well and have so many comforts, it is easy to love the pleasures of the earth too much and think too highly of the importance of our desires. There are several stories of people who have won millions in the lottery, and in a few years they’re broke and they say it ruined their lives. The thrill of spending money is addictive, and we can easily lose track of what we are doing. Loving any of the goods of the earth too much We read in Proverbs 30:7-9 “Two things I ask of you, do not deny them to me before I die: Put falsehood and lying far from me, give me neither poverty nor riches; provide me only
with the food I need; Lest, being full, I deny you, saying, “Who is the Lord?” Or, being I want, I steal, and profane the name of my God.” Both abundance and depravation bring challenges.
When Jesus said, “Blessed are the poor,” I suggest He is pointing to those who know that what the earth provides is not enough to make them happy. We are made for more, for eternal values, eternal treasures.
I have listened to the first episode of the podcast “He Leadeth Me” by Walter J. Ciszek S.J. It describes how the Soviets destroyed all they had built and took the prisoner to horrific work camps in Siberia. He later said that God allows such things to happen, and this teaches us that all we need is Him. Given his experience, he spoke with authority. I speak as one very accustomed to (and very fond of) indoor plumbing, central heating, and meals on a regular basis. I would have a very hard time losing those things, and I can’t guarantee you how I would react. I do know, however, that none of the goods of the earth are guaranteed for tomorrow, but the love of God is. If we attend to our relationship with God in good times and bad times (and medium times), if we make prayer and service to God a consistent priority, I think we would be more likely to react to hardship by clinging more tightly to God rather than giving up in despair. Things like fasting and doing penance can help us build our Say-no-to-ourselves muscles so we are better prepared to face hardship.
Both Psalm 1 and Jeremiah 17 talk about people who put their trust in God and love His ways are like trees planted beside flowing waters, whose sustenance was consistent and sure. Let us seek to be rooted ever more deeply in God.
Blessings,
Fr. Jim

Calling Sinners to Action

Dear Folks,
Our readings this Sunday show two people getting called by God (see Isaiah 6 and Luke 5). We think Isaiah was a priest, and we know Peter was a fisherman. They encountered God and His call while at work and gets their attention in a way that they would be sensitive to. Both have an experience of the divine, and it makes them powerfully aware of their shortcomings. God reassures them so they can answer the call. Notice especially they are not promised reward but given a task.
In fact, they both suffered much for their service. According to the ancient stories, Isaiah was put in a hollow tree and was sawed in half. St. Peter was crucified upside down. He said that he wasn’t worthy to die the way that Jesus died, and so the soldiers (who I presume thought they were funny) did it that way. They certainly knew that answering God’s call didn’t lead to an easy path, but I suspect they didn’t know how hard it was going to be. God strengthened them on their journeys so that they could be faithful even to their extreme endings.
I would suggest that God is testing our Church now, and our future as Church will pivot around our response to His call. Are we accepting the challenge to be coworkers in mission. We may get frustrated with the Church sometimes (I speak from experience), but rather than focus on what the Pope, various bishops and various priests should be doing (or not doing), we can focus on what we can do to further the mission in our little corner. There will always be things going on that we don’t like, that we think should be done differently. Coworkers in mission focus on how the Church can best respond to Jesus’ command to make disciples of all nations, and how we can help make that happen.
We seek to grow in holiness not just for our sake, but so that God’s light might shine more brightly through us (Mat 5:13-15). If we want a better world, the first step is always to fall more deeply in love with Jesus.
Next, we consider how we tell the Gospel story. If you take a look at this Sunday’s second reading from 1 Corinthians 15 St. Paul relates the basic message of Jesus (called “the kerygma”). How would you sum up the Christian message? Christopher West says it’s “God wants to marry you.” Another way would be, Jesus brought perfect love into the world, and by the power of that love He can conquer evil in us.
How do we work together as community? Are we inviting and welcoming? How well and how lovingly do we resolve conflict in our midst? Does it show that Jesus is at work here?
How do we worship? Do our presence and our participation show that we are doing the most important work of our week? If we are focused on giving ourselves completely to God in worship it will show. How do we help those in need? Do we amaze the surrounding community with our love in action? Jesus invites us to come and fish for His people. How do we answer?
Blessings,
Fr. Jim